On the compulsion of being social.
Often we try to squeeze in as many plans as possible for the weekend.
There are people we need to meet, things we need to do, memories we need to make.
Then we head to work, talk about the mad weekend, about how exhausting it was, how we need another weekend to recover from this one.
We live in the past weekend, all the while pinning for the coming one, not for one moment taking the time to just breath and be.
I’ve never been much of a talker and when I see people going through this process day after day, week after week, all the time whining, I wonder why they put themselves through this process again and again.
The weird thing is that these people expect you to be a part of this process. They expect you to be a part of this social group, talk till you drop, talk even if you don’t make any sense.
Not being social does not mean a person is a loner. Neither does it mean that the person is uninterested in what others have to say.
A person who doesn’t talk has a high possibility of being a great listener. The likes of which are very hard to find in this age where everyone is trying to look cooler and more happening.
A person who doesn’t talk might also be someone who is at ease in her own skin. She do not find it necessary to talk about the things she does, to get external validation of how amazing she is.
She prefers doing the things she loves, quietly,
Spending time with people she loves, having meaningful conversations of the likes which appeal to her,
All the while living in the moment,
All the while searching for the reason for her existence.
Yes, I am this her. And no one, neither the people I deal with everyday, nor the society I live in, is going to push into being social.
All Things Human 
To each his/her own and society needs to understand this. But I don’t think people who make weekend plans hate it either… They just don’t think about what they are doing and why.. but that’s their way of life… To each his/her own.
I understand and support the to each his/her own. And agree to your point. I just wanted to vent out. Yes this is a biased blog.